Do Something Remarkable... Inspire Respect ~ Rob's own quote 2007

I've been a nurse for 9 years and I've learned people lie, a lot. They lie most about sex, drugs, and money. It's important to examine ourselves and tell the truth, even the ugly bits. Only then can we begin to do something remarkable.

I'm single and want to date, and mate. As a Taurus I've always been an exhibitionist. Yet oddly, I live a quiet solitary life. I'm Industrious, Intellectual, Serious, Humorous, Disciplined, Successful, Humility, Loyal, Independent, Protective, Frugal, Aggressive, Generous, nurturing, non-addicted, non-drug using, and overall well sorted. I've learned to appreciate the benefits of an abusive childhood, especially one without intermittent positive reinforcement along the way.

Why PIG? It's a statement of personal pride. I could have said fag, or queer but they're so last century. PIG is owning myself as an alpha man without apology for any of it. No, it doesn't mean I like to get fisted. I aim to create a remarkable life. I'm ready to be in love again. And yes, my love is as big as the rest of me.

I don't need permission, approval or validation because I nurture myself. I'm Taurus, and secure to my bone. I prefer raw honesty over politically correct non committal stances. Perhaps it's my East Coast upbringing but I can't respect a coward, even a well intended one.

I have a dream that you see your true nature, and forgive your humanness. I think so much unhappiness is perpetuated because people can't forgive themselves. Let it go already, and love yourself. Your self-hatred isn't helping anyone, fix it and move on.

Voyeurs there's much more of me on bigmuscle.com/leatherob
My sexual tastes are listed on Recon.com/leatherob

Like other gay men over 45, I've become completely invisible in the world, and especially on-line. It's amazing this new power I have of invisibility. However difficult, I still want to meet men who know how to love their-self. I especially want to date and meet my special someone. I'm attracted to short compact Beta men. Someone softer than me, because I need that balance. I don't want to rule out solely on age however for a relationship I need someone over 35. I've never been into self-destruction. If you believe we might be a match contact me, let's chat, and let me take you to dinner, a walk or a movie. A healthy mind, spirit, body, and emotional state with a dose of hard work ethic and personal honesty trump HIV status, and material possessions any day. What have you done today? Godspeed.

10/13/2008:
Passionate, smart, funny, creative, insightful and fiercely dedicated. All this, and a sizzling hot body too. Bob's the bomb!