I am a walking juxtaposition, anyone who knows me can attest to this. There are three aspects that are very important to who I am, but none of them can completely describe me alone. I am a gay, Christian, fraternity boy (in no particular order). Each aspect has played a significant role in defining me, which after all is what this section is supposed to be about.

I'll leave the gay bit to be self-explanatory as i am in fact on a gay website ;)

As for the Christian part, I am the son of a Conservative Baptist minister. While I would no longer claim to be a Conservative Baptist, I still do consider myself to be a Christian. My faith is very important to me, and ultimately is how I define who I am. I am also very at peace with being both gay and a Christian.

As for the fraternity bit, that took me by surprise too, but when you go to college at a small private school in Oklahoma your perspective on the Greek system can be altered a bit. I was president of my fraternity, and attribute a lot of my success in my career to the skills I learned as a part of it. Yes, I can be a bit of a partier (alcohol) sometimes, but more in the past then currently. I'm still active with my fraternity as an alumnus adviser.

I'm not the easiest person to figure out, but I do care deeply about my friends and family. I was raised to believe that without integrity we are nothing.

If you've made it this far, thanks for reading, feel free to drop me a line.By the way IM rarely ever works for me, so it's easiest to drop me a message.

Least favorite question: "How are you still single?"

Random Poem:
"Our lives are filled with endless tears, with countless trials and pains
We fight we fall but still stand tall, in spite of heavy rains
And in the end when looking back, we'll say it's for the best
We fought we rose and some how chose, to rise above the rest"

Favorite Quotes:

"Until you have something worth dying for, you aren't really living" -unknown

"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years." - Abraham Lincoln

1 Peter 3:15 - "But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,"

You Are Boston

Both modern and old school, you never forget your roots. Well educated and a little snobby, you demand the best. And quite frankly, you think you are the best. Famous people from the Boston area: Conan O'Brien, Ben Affleck, New Kids on the Block

Your results:
You are Iron Man

Iron Man 100% Green Lantern 85% Hulk 70% The Flash 60% Batman 50% Superman 45% Spider-Man 45% Supergirl 45% Catwoman 35% Robin 27% Wonder Woman 25%

Inventor. Businessman. Genius.

Click here to take the "Which Superhero are you?" quiz...

You Are An ENTJ

The Executive You are a natural leader - with confidence and strength that inspires others. Driven to succeed, you are always looking for ways to gain, power, knowledge, and expertise. Sometimes you aren't the most considerate person, especially to those who are a bit slow. You are not easily intimidated - and you have a commanding, awe-inspiring presence. In love, you hold high standards... for yourself, for your relationship, and for your significant other. While it's easy for you to impress others, it's hard for you to find someone who impresses you. At work, you are organized and good at delegating. You understand how to achieve goals. You would make a great CEO, entrepreneur, or consultant. How you see yourself: Rational, calm, and objective When other people don't get you, they see you as: Inflexible, controlling, and overbearing

AEKDB

Someone who knows proper hermeneutics. Other gay Christians. People who question whether the harmonic series really does diverge. Russians. People with a sense of class. People who will challenge me to be better then I am, but also support me in getting there.

1/24/2010:
I don't know what Chris does for work. It makes him money, though. He's also tall and handsome and kind. That's good for him because guys seem to dig that.

5/30/2008:
Chris is the cuter, gayer, more religious, and more adventurous little brother I never had. Don't let his age fool you, he's more grown-up and mature than I'll ever be too. Take the time to get to know him and you'll be rewarded with an amazing friendship, or for one lucky guy, an amazing husband. Thanks for being there for me, especially the last few weeks!

3/6/2005:
Chris..you are one of a kind..I can't even remember how we started chatting but my chats with you where always interesting..I always enjoyed that...You are so full of life and you have so much going for you..I love your sense of humor, your sarcasim, your strength, you ambitions, and you care for others..Never let anyone take advantage of you you are to goo for that..Always remember that I will be here if you need me..even if it means drama..)..Thank you for taking the time to meet me at JR's i have truly shocked when i saw you cuz i was not expecting you to be there but im glad that i got to see you finally..Lets hope our next meeting is a little bit longer...)...*HUGS* *KISSES*

8/26/2004:
I've heard people say all kinds of things about this guy, but no matter what anyone else thinks, Chris, you are a great friend. It sucks not being able to hang out as much as we use to but, it's better to have you a phone call or rather than to have never known you. Screw them all. They obviously don't know much about you if they think otherwise.